Finding Your True Love
© 2003 GypsyJaguar
The key to finding your true love is to first discover how to love yourself and the person you are. If you cannot do that at this point, then you need to work on what you do not like about yourself. Look at yourself as if you were someone else. Do you like who you are? Would you be proud to have yourself as a friend...as a trusted companion? Would you see yourself as a respected individual? If not, then how will anyone else see you that way? Work on yourself first. Rediscover your own strengths, assets and natural abilities. Boost your self-confidence by realizing what makes you unique and work toward accepting it as a personal strength.
If you are looking for a soul mate to solve all of your issues and to cure your loneliness, you are going to be extremely disappointed and will end up seeking out the type of person who challenges these issues every time. You are supposed to work on many of these on your own. Otherwise, you will just end up repeating the same relationship cycles you have in the past. Work on dealing with any personal issues you may have as best as you are able to. The more we consciously work on ourselves, the more rewarding our future relationships will be. For more help, see the following pages: Rediscovering Yourself - Dealing with Issues - Cleansing |
When you are ready and you have already met your soul mate, that doesn't mean that your life is just going to completely flow like an undisturbed stream. The whole point of having a soul mate is to work on issues and ideas and projects with them...to grow. Every relationship is a growing and learning experience. And you have to work very hard to keep it fresh and alive and balanced. Issues will come up you have to work through together. Problems will arise that you have to solve together. Tragedies can still happen. It is all to teach you how to become a stronger and more balanced individual.
When you feel you are ready to call your soul mate to you, you may use this exercise to do so. Just keep in mind that the universe is not built on time sequences like we are used to. There is no set time that things will occur. It all depends on where you are in your emotional/ spiritual/ mental/ physical balance structure as well as where your soul mate is. It is possible that you could be ready before your love is ready. It is also very likely that you will discover new issues to work through when you end up meeting your other half. Sometime these are meant to work on together, as they could be issues from past lives together. Other times they are meant to work on alone, as they could be your own personal issues that you didn't consciously realize until you met each other and unlocked them. Regardless of the circumstances, you will have no doubt whatsoever that this other individual is the one for you. You may not realize it immediately, but your soul will know. |
The following is an exercise that you can do to find your true love. It can be used as a meditation, a daily affirmation, and/or as part of a love spell. First, make a list of 10 qualities you would cherish in your perfect mate. Not physical qualities, but rather the "idea" or "feeling" of being with this wonderful person.
Do not envision someone you already know. Do not even picture what this person would look like. This is very important.
You must clear your mind of thoughts and just imagine your "dream mate" as a shadow with no features. All you can "see" of this person is their inner being...what they feel like and what it would feel like to be with them.
Get a piece of paper, or open your computer notepad and write down these qualities as you think of them. Write down whatever pops into your head first, even if it sounds completely bizarre. It may make sense a little later.
When you feel you are finished, go back and concentrate on what you think you meant by these words and try to categorize them into similar word groups.
Afterward you will end up condensing some of these words in to an all-encompassing word to describe several words in one. For example, some words you might have written down may be...
loyalty, devotion, fidelity
sweetheart, kind, compassionate
charming, adoring, romantic
strong, tough, powerful
Notice how the three words in each group basically mean the same thing. You can narrow down the words by picking ONE of the words to represent the others. Whichever one feels right to you.
After you finish your list, you have created your ideal mate and should be able to imagine what life would be like with this person in spirit. Concentrate on this feeling and at this point is where you pray for them to be sent to you in a ritual that fits to your beliefs. You may set aside a time to do a daily affirmation or prayer to have them enter your life when the time is right for both of you. You may focus on this in a meditation exercise. You may use this as an added bonus to a love spell as well.
When you feel you are finished, go back and concentrate on what you think you meant by these words and try to categorize them into similar word groups.
Afterward you will end up condensing some of these words in to an all-encompassing word to describe several words in one. For example, some words you might have written down may be...
loyalty, devotion, fidelity
sweetheart, kind, compassionate
charming, adoring, romantic
strong, tough, powerful
Notice how the three words in each group basically mean the same thing. You can narrow down the words by picking ONE of the words to represent the others. Whichever one feels right to you.
After you finish your list, you have created your ideal mate and should be able to imagine what life would be like with this person in spirit. Concentrate on this feeling and at this point is where you pray for them to be sent to you in a ritual that fits to your beliefs. You may set aside a time to do a daily affirmation or prayer to have them enter your life when the time is right for both of you. You may focus on this in a meditation exercise. You may use this as an added bonus to a love spell as well.
As a Meditation
See "A Basic Meditation"
Complete the following when you get to the part where you can work on special exercises.
Envision your perfect mate with the 10 qualities you have compiled, the essence of this person. Feel yourself with them, see your spirits being intertwined in a spiral of unconditional love. You may meditate on when, where, and how you will meet this person if you desire.
Complete the following when you get to the part where you can work on special exercises.
Envision your perfect mate with the 10 qualities you have compiled, the essence of this person. Feel yourself with them, see your spirits being intertwined in a spiral of unconditional love. You may meditate on when, where, and how you will meet this person if you desire.
References:
Jess Stearn, Soulmates
Also see:
Emotional Healing - Dealing With Issues - Coping with Grief - Why Bad Things Happen to Good People - Releasing Anger - Forgiveness - Acceptance - Facing Your Fears - True Strength - Rediscovering Yourself - A Feel-Good Project - Finding Your True Love - True Love Spell - Perfection
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